i passed by a friend blog. so i decided to write something up here. maybe many of you came here,tag and did not read any of my post. but after reading his post, many thoughts run thru my mind. so i decided to pen it down here.
we should face everything with a smile, an optimistic mind. because optimism will help you overcome your fear, and also you would never know if it helps to turn things better. both he and me read this book, tuesday with morrie. "you wouldn't learn to live, until you learn to die."
to me, is true you will never treasure if you do not know regret. and i'm sure everyone one of us do have regrets in their lives and in one way or another, we always try to make it up, and there's when we learn to treasure. like what he say, 'only through a dying man's eyes do we see how to cherish the time we have left, how to live life as it was meant to be.' this is very true. we often fail to complete the task given and at the end of the day, do we regret and also learn to cherish what we have in the future to come.
maybe at some point of time, the kind of people in you do not like appear in your life. people appear in your life for a REASON. they do not appear for nothing. maybe one day the person that you do not like will help you in some way.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. they may bring in happiness, unhappiness and also some experiences. they teaches some moral values in life. BUT they are here only for a season.
LIFETIME relationship, it teaches you lifetime moral and lessons. lessons that follow you thru out your life. and you will take these whole lifetime to love them and learn from them. nonetheless, accept the lesson that is being taught. and also put in all the lesson you learnt into other aspects.
it is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

life is never long.
grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
love deeply and forget quickly
take chances and give eveything,
have no regrets.
life is too short to be unhappy.
so take the good with the bad
smile when you're sad.
love what you've got
and always remember what you had.
always forgive and never forget.

this is very true. instead on bearing grudges, we should let go. for life is too short to hate one. love the person. it is always better to have one more friend than foe. hope people that are reading this understand. let go of this, life is never too short to love. but not long to hate. hatred is causing harm to ourselves.
from my friend blog, i understand that. i hope people understand.
i dont bear grudges. i may seem not to like you, but i'll accept you. because we are all friends. you appear here in my life for a reason, and i respect that. i believe you're here to teach me certain lesson in life. so i respect, i hope people will also be like that. respect what the nature gives us. is not for us to choose but for us to take and make full use of it((:
what we often see might not be true. i see that this faci is harsh and strict towards us. but she changed my mindset today. she cared for all of us and even bought us tidbits. look at different angle and different perspective will appear. different angle has different scenery, some are good and some are bad. look far and you will see all. by then, that's the truth we will see.
i just wanna clear up something, i'm not going against you. i'm being neutral. if you cant accept it, i'll not blame you, for humans are creatures that doesnt accept reality, and i dont deny that i am.
i accept who am i. nothing is easy to learn.baby took a long time to learn ABC while we will say thats easy. have we thought before that we've also been thru it. we should learn to put ourselves in their shoes and see. i'm learning, and i hope the reat is also learning.
we are never to old to learn. NEVER, as long as you're willing to.

to all mighty god above,
keep everyone around me
safe and sound.
may everything goes smoothly for all.

love more hate less,
makes the world a better place,
to live in((: